Be a gentle person.
This means that you treat others with respect and not to expect anything back from them. Being genuinely nice and gentle is a very attractive trait as it demands respect and moral authority and shows maturity and a basic understanding of social norms. Especially be respectful to old people.
Be interested in her stories.
Take care of your body.
I’m sorry, I don’t want to judge you for not caring (although I do care myself) but if you smell or whatever girls will find it disgusting (thus unattractive) and consider you lazy, whilst taking care of your body and hygiene literally makes you way more attractive than if you wouldn’t, no matter how attractive you are. Wanna go up the physical attractiveness-ladder? Learn hygiene.
Have some self-awareness.
Girls don’t care about your games or your “dank memes” (sometimes they do but don’t start about it), your porn, your self-proclaimed N PD, your IQ according to some online test (if you’re really intelligent, she will see it in your actions) and you being an INF J. Especially don’t bring up feminism and how much you hate it. It makes you seem like a butt hurt virgin who can’t get any women and thus starts blaming a gigantic concept called “feminism” in its entity, thus effectively opposing universal suffrage and women’s reproductive rights and supporting traditional gender roles.
Actually, NEVER discuss politics
with a girl when you try to fix her. It’s not just leading to conflict but it makes you seem boring. Like you need to discuss some famous politicians and activists who are having discussions somewhere light years away because you’re too uninteresting yourself.
Don’t be desperate. If she doesn’t respond to your text in a quarter, don’t freak out and text her again.
